Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some common questions international visitors have about Indian weddings.

Indian weddings are vibrant! For women, traditional attire like saris or lehengas are popular, but elegant Western formal wear (dresses, gowns) is also acceptable. For men, a suit or traditional kurta-pajama is suitable. Bright colors are encouraged, but avoid white (associated with funerals) and black (often seen as inauspicious). Comfort is also key, as you'll likely be moving and dancing!

It's customary to remove your shoes before entering religious spaces (like temples or certain areas of the wedding venue). Greet elders by touching their feet (Namaste is also fine, bowing slightly with palms together). Don't touch religious idols or books without permission. Most importantly, enjoy the celebration and don't hesitate to politely ask your hosts if you're unsure about anything! Respectful participation is key.

Gifts are appreciated but not mandatory. Monetary gifts (typically in an envelope with an odd number, e.g., ₹501, ₹1001) are common. Avoid gifts of leather or alcohol due to cultural sensitivities. If in doubt, a gift from a wedding registry (if provided) or a small, thoughtful token like a piece of art, a book, or a plant is always welcome.

Indian weddings often span multiple days, involving various ceremonies like the Haldi, Mehendi, Sangeet, and the main Wedding Ceremony itself. Each ceremony has its own significance and unique atmosphere. Guests are usually invited to specific events or the entire celebration, depending on their relationship with the couple and the family.

Prepare for a culinary feast! Indian weddings are known for their lavish buffets with a vast array of vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes from various regions of India. You'll find a delightful mix of curries, breads, rice dishes, sweets, and beverages. Don't be shy to try everything, but also pace yourself!

Generally, yes! Indian weddings are very visual, and guests are encouraged to capture the moments. However, be mindful of the professional photographers and videographers, and avoid blocking their shots. During solemn religious ceremonies, it's polite to be discreet and perhaps avoid flash photography. When in doubt, observe what others are doing or politely ask a family member.